Are Muslim women victims of identity politics?

Sometimes’ understanding others become very difficult, specially your own Dad…..

I love MY Dad...My dad!!! …I should say what great father he is. I am sure you guys must be thinking that every one sings the same jingle for their dad what’s new …Yaa, he has something different, believes me – few qualities which other dad’s doesn’t posses ? Are your dad over-possessive about you, I m sure not as like as my dad, he calls me 100 times in a day since morning until the day ends’. He still believes that I am the same girl, who could be fit in the same outfit as a use to when I was a kid. For me its, a difficult task to mould this thought or his attitude towards me, punctuality, hard work, discipline, social world, puja all these comings in his good books or I can say, the goodwill of his life.  Secondly, he thinks that what ever he says or does is the best for me. Infact, some time he tries to pore his thoughts on me  in way of my decision by judging through his past experiences or may be from his life experience ….And never try to step in my shoes. 

That’s what I call a “GENERATION GAP” but on the other hand, the funniest (ahhhaa) thing about my dada is that after pore his decision, he realizes the reality or the fact and let me do what ever I want & indeed pray that all my dreams come true… That’s what I call “filling the gap by understanding the new generation”.

My dad understands me and tries to coop-up with my lifestyle, behavior but sometimes’ he fail to understand me because of this gap”, on certain occasions, even I fail to do so May be because of unlike thought process. I know that alone saying or psychoanalysis this gap wouldn’t work for both of us. Usually, this’d encountered between all fathers’ and daughters’ ….specially when the girl crosses age group of 16.

So, now dad has made up his mind that he would understand my feelings , emotions , discuses things with me & after that he would take the decisions, so that “gap” word could be remove . “ahhhaa”  I should say that my dad want to fill the gap but by his own terms and conditions ..As a matter of fact, the end decision would be his not mine.. Then what’s the usage of filling the cracks…

Does  your dad’s sings the same jingle as like my dad!!!…….:)

Most clashes are found with alike personalities!( A psychological phenomena)

There are two friends who posses almost the same personality but have their own style of carrying or confronting it in the society, a very common feature that they both have - is that they don’t like to get associated with the word “failure” in their dictionaries. When such personalities sit over a debate or discussion, they tend to grow their emotions with the debate  and slowly it lays down the root for an argument or the start for a conflict as they start taking such discussion personally they tend to take it to their heart and hurt them after. Alternatively, sometime both the personalities show aggressiveness to each other, which could be easily make out from their faces. Their plain motive is too prove, their thoughts correct... which on turn  automatically proves others’ view incorrect and over here, one wins’ but the other is not willing to accept the “defeat”. The victor always thinks that it was just a debate nothing else, and feels happy on winning the debate which was more of an argument. Where if subjected to the case of other, it still revolves in the mind of that person and the urge of beating the opponent some other time, keeps poking. However, both of them doesn’t realize that, they are very good friends and it’s nothing but a healthy debate only, which is somewhere harming their friendship by creating those small conflicting clots inside them 

                   

What do you think, should such kind of discussion be ignored to save the word

                                                            “FRIENDSHIP”

Journey of life, is like a movie & Flash back begins........

Sharing my personal or should I say a corporate experience which usually happens when a youth debuts in this so called “professional world”, I started working 2 year back, when completing my graduation in Mass.com, at that moment nothing was in my mind regarding - what should be the next step, which path is more better for my future, instead of thinking about all these, a word was revolving between my nerves moreover emphasizing on 5 letters “MONEY” woo.. Woo. Money, money. Suddenly saw, I dream where i am not asking pocket money from papa because my pockets are already full. Realize that i am free as i am flying like a free bird.. my life is free As if there wouldn't be any restrictions … the very next got the news that i am selected  for the interview, will be working with Naukri, “Naukri”…unexpected. Felt that I am lucky got this chance & grab it, but when i became the part of this world, it is an experience of something that I got a taste of life on the wild side"; "I enjoyed her brief taste of independence" as well as the felling of captive underneath of…..:) Ssshhhh

The First

This is a fresh new start to my old habit of writing and describing myself and the world around me in words, This being my first blog - i'll prefer to start with introducing myself and the world around me :

Kirti - yes the name is Kirti - The origin of the name Kirti is from Sanskrit which means "Fame" and "Glory" and further i believe the name goes perfectly in sync with my personality and attitude - i am high headed - confident young individual, ready to tussle with life and its challenges.

 
From the time i got the real clue of the world and species who exist and realised i am also a part of this race only - each n every day has given me some learning - to take in to reference to lead the path of future.

This being my first blog and i really don't know how to go about it : Don't have much to write about for the first post but will try n scribble everything that goes through my mind : so that means that i'll be keeping my blog to all the spheres.