Most clashes are found with alike personalities!( A psychological phenomena)

There are two friends who posses almost the same personality but have their own style of carrying or confronting it in the society, a very common feature that they both have - is that they don’t like to get associated with the word “failure” in their dictionaries. When such personalities sit over a debate or discussion, they tend to grow their emotions with the debate  and slowly it lays down the root for an argument or the start for a conflict as they start taking such discussion personally they tend to take it to their heart and hurt them after. Alternatively, sometime both the personalities show aggressiveness to each other, which could be easily make out from their faces. Their plain motive is too prove, their thoughts correct... which on turn  automatically proves others’ view incorrect and over here, one wins’ but the other is not willing to accept the “defeat”. The victor always thinks that it was just a debate nothing else, and feels happy on winning the debate which was more of an argument. Where if subjected to the case of other, it still revolves in the mind of that person and the urge of beating the opponent some other time, keeps poking. However, both of them doesn’t realize that, they are very good friends and it’s nothing but a healthy debate only, which is somewhere harming their friendship by creating those small conflicting clots inside them 

                   

What do you think, should such kind of discussion be ignored to save the word

                                                            “FRIENDSHIP”